generally speaking $20 a song for a one on one...are you going to be getting couples-dances though? some girls will charge a little extra to give a dance for two people but you might luck out and make a connection with a gal who will give you the one-on-one rate. I went once with a friend and the girl charged us $30/song...and she was great, interactive with us both etc....said she would normally charge double for an interactive dance with two people, which when you think about it makes sense.
Usually 20 dollars in the champagne room. 10 dollars if she's doing a table dance. Some dancers expect drinks. Those can add up if you don't have the heart to say no.
Look through the SC conversations in your area and you should see some great choices on which champagne rooms offer you more privacy or "bang for your buck" Again you and your husbands mileage may vary. Good luck!
Expect to pay $40, though like Annessa points out, some girls may only charge $30. I'd be surprised if you were able to get a couples dance for only $20, though I suppose it could happen - I wouldn't recommend asking for it though. Just make sure to ask the dancer for the cost before starting the dance to avoid any nasty surprises.
i find the ladies at the playmate are more upto doing couples or two on one lap dances
while I would agree that the ladies (like myself) at the playmate are up for doing couple's dances....it is VERY hard to squish two people in one chair in the CR there....I've given a couple a dance there and its beyond awkward cuz we have no couches there.